Okay, she may jump into your arms, but that doesn’t mean she’s emotionally ready for a relationship. Girl says she likes me but isn’t ready for a relationship? INSIDER spoke with a relationship expert to find out what to do when your partner isn't ready for a relationship. Cause on of those I'm talking bout is 18 yrs and told me she isn't ready. If she has just come out of a relationship, she knows that she needs time to heal. I take her comments to mean she wants to have fun with you but not become serious. If this woman likes you, but doesn’t want a relationship, it can often be her way of saying that she likes you as a person, but isn’t sexually attracted to you yet. She's either ready or she isn't. We’ve known of each other for a few months, and only started talking just under a month ago. Okay, so i’ve really clicked with this girl. Perhaps she likes more musically inclined guys or maybe she wants a buff surfer. Everyone likes a different type of partner, and it isn’t your fault if you are not interested in 18th century erotica or mid-century guitar solos. She’s not just going to forget the man she’s been dating for five years and jump happily into your arms. So I've been talking to this girl since February, she's in my friends group and is the ex of one of my old mates. Putting words to what is best for us is the easy part but to actually do what is best is much more difficult. Kindly, if you don't mind, you can try writing me a comprehensive coverage of how I should take things if for instance I happen to get this girl I like so much and I start by establishing friendship. Girl says she likes me but isn’t ready for a relationship? I am 20, she is 18. And, like she said, she isn’t ready for that. Posted by 5 months ago. What do you mean she’s not emotionally ready for a relationship?! I'm 21 and if I get someone serious, I'm good to go. 3. If a girl says she isn't ready to date, but that she likes me, is that sincere? You should be open with your partner about what you want, and be ready to compromise. Close. Here, the word ready is really critical since it doesn’t mean the window is completely closed, it just means the timing isn’t perfect. This isn’t a movie, fellas. I think she says she can’t see you but then, a few days later, has to see you because that’s just how desire works. I had a friend who after meeting a girl for 5 minutes would start trying to get into a relationship with her & its like hold on man you dont even know her name practically let alone maybe she has a bf already relax. When she says she’s not ready for a relationship and you already know the background of her previous relationship, then it’s smooth sailing from there. Girl says she likes me but isn't ready for a relationship? There's not a whole lot you can do about it, either. She sounds like a smart person. After I was hooked, she revealed that she was going through a divorce and wasn’t ready to have an emotional or physical relationship. Sometimes the worst thing at the start of a new relationship you're enjoying is when they tell you they're not ready for anything serious. She might like you and be attracted to you, but that does not mean that she sees a long-term potential in dating you.